Go. Be Happy. No Regrets: A New Year's Lesson in Loss
As we approach 2025, I’m reminded of the wisdom my Grandpa Chet imparted to me over the years. He faced countless challenges, yet he always found reasons to be grateful, even when life seemed full of hardship. His advice to “Go. Be happy. No regrets” continues to resonate deeply with me. In the face of loss and tough times, it’s a reminder to not stay stuck in the sadness, but to find the glimmers of joy and peace that surround us. This New Year, let’s embrace the permission to cry when we need to, but also to find our glimmers and LIVE.
Extra in Every Way: Grandma’s Love
Grandma was the epitome of "extra" in the most beautiful ways—her sleepovers were legendary, her Christmases pure magic, and her love unmatched. She filled every moment with thoughtfulness, laughter, and generosity, leaving us with memories that will sparkle forever.
38
Thirty-eight years. That’s how long I was blessed with my Grandpa Chet’s hugs—the kind of hugs no one else could replicate.
Mint chocolate chip ice cream transports me to his living room, watching I Love Lucy reruns in my pajamas. A chocolate shake takes me back to our favorite booth at Big T. The tick of a clock reminds me of his unwavering love, steady as the gears in his workshop.
Last night, I hugged him three final times, listening to the ticking of the wall clock. “I love you so much,” I whispered. And I heard his words in my heart, as steady as ever: “But I love you more.”
For 38 years, I always knew.
The Joy of Sinking Funds
Tired of scrambling to cover unexpected expenses or holiday splurges? Enter sinking funds, my favorite budgeting hack! By saving little by little for specific goals—like Christmas gifts, summer camps, or car repairs—you can transform financial stress into peace of mind. Thanks to Ally Bank’s High-Yield Savings Accounts and their genius “Buckets” feature, organizing and automating these funds has never been easier. With buckets for everything from home maintenance to a vacation fund, I’m staying proactive and enjoying life guilt-free. Ready to see how sinking funds can simplify your budget? Let’s dive in!
Life after the Leap
Five Months In: Life After the Leap
Five months ago, I jumped off the traditional career hamster wheel, and it’s been life-changing. From a refreshing career pivot to balancing work and life with more intention, the shift has brought me the freedom I didn’t know I needed.
The truth? No one talks about how or when to take the leap, but I’m here to tell you: You just leap when the opportunity presents itself. So, here’s to taking risks, finding balance, and making magic out of the landing.
#CareerPivot #WorkLifeBalance #TakingTheLeap #NewBeginnings #ChasingGlimmers #WorkingMoms
Never say never
I was also someone who never wanted kids. To me, they were synonymous with chaos, mess, and a serious drain on freedom and ambition. They seemed like expensive, noisy, life-altering creatures…
I’m a bit of a prepper + planner
I like routine. With all the decisions I have to make as a mom of four in a day, the more I can plan or prepare ahead and eliminate decision fatigue, the smoother our weeks go. [And the better my mental health is!]